Relationships Counseling
When it comes to our love lives there are a set of questions that we all need to answer:
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What is a “good partner” for me and where can I find such a partner?
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How can I “win” and then “keep” such a partner?
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How can I deal with interpersonal challenges with my partner?
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What is love and how to keep it strong?
We help people deal with those questions and teach them the needed competencies to be able to deal with them in the future without the need for any help.
BENEFITS:
KNOW YOURSELF TO FIND THE BEST PARTNER
The only way to truly understand what “the perfect partner” for us is, is to actually understand in-depth ourselves first.
That way we could realize what potential partners’ characteristics are good for us and what is not. Moreover we will know what can we actually offer, and what is not realistic to think we could…
UNDERSTANDING WHAT LOVE ACTUALLY IS
People often think of love as this mystical, whimsical thing, that nobody can explain and that happens (or not) in mysterious ways…
This however is not exactly the truth…
Love, as every other emotional state, can be analyzed and explained since it is a consequence of a set of neuro-biological processes in our bodies, activated by the interaction between two people!
What this means is that we can actually predict what needs to happen in order for someone to fall in love with another!!!
Read that again…
OVERCOMING SELF-SABOTAGING BEHAVIORS
People often unknowingly are projecting their own imperfections, issues, and maladaptive behaviors onto their love partners, pushing them away.
The program puts light on those imperfections, in order to explain them and find out how exactly are they destroying our relationships and how can we replace them with adaptive behaviors that strengthen our relations instead.
UNDERSTANDING THE CONCEPT OF "THE PERFECT PARTNER"
Even though the saying “opposites attract each other” has grown in popularity, it is as far from the truth as it could be!
Though often we are attracted to people that are very different from us, differences are the most common reason for couples splitting!
But knowing what it means not to have differences is far beyond personal opinions… And it is not a simple thing to understand without professional support.
LEARNING TO LOVE AND BE LOVED
Understanding love gives us a powerful tool for one of the oldest challenges in life – learning “how to love” and “how to be loved”.
Once we know what makes someone feel love, all we need is the skill set needed to activate that love…
We help people acquire that skillset so that they could find and enjoy love!
ONCE IN RELATIONSHIP - IDENTIFICATION OF THE ROOT PROBLEM/S
The path to improvement goes through understanding. And what’s more important to understand for our relationships than each other?
Addressing symptoms without knowing what causes them is the same as trying to put out a fire without removing the fuel that stimulates it…
Once the problem is identified and addressed, all the symptoms become weaker and less resistant to people’s efforts of overcoming them.
TIME-SAVING FOCUS & PRACTICAL APPROACH
No subjectivity and open-for-interpretation analyses!
We are not philosophers… we are scientists!
We use data to apply real scientific knowledge to everyday life for real results!
We do not want you to be in couples therapy for years!
We want you to be able to deal with relationship challenges on your own as soon as possible!
That’s why we give you all the needed competencies for that and stay available for support only if/when needed!
APPLICABLE SOCIAL SKILLS FOR ALL AREAS OF LIFE
The skills we teach our clients, for dealing with relationship challenges are effective and applicable to all interpersonal and social areas of life, not only to love life.
We provide the needed soft skills, analytical thinking, self-understanding, others-understanding, and social skills needed for a person to be successful in real-life relations, no matter who is in front of them!
THE PROCESS
(In detail)
- The “Relationship Counseling” consists of individual and couples online “sessions” each lasting about an hour and a half (1,5 h.)
- The schedule for the sessions is flexible and aligned with the client’s schedule. Meaning that we schedule them upfront in a convenient for both sides day and time.
- Each meeting takes place in a convenient online medium with video and audio (This could be “Skype”, “Microsoft Teams”, “Viber”, “Telegram”, “Facebook messenger”, “Google Hangouts”, or any other suitable channel for digital communication)
- The process is not fixed by any time frame and it depends on the needs of the clients, their learning and implementation speed, how ready they are for a change, and how much time weekly they can spend on the program. (Bare in mind the program is entirely customized for the specific needs and profile/s of the individual client/s). For more on that, please check the “Steps & Modules” tab)
- Preliminary discussion for the initial introduction, questions & potential concerns (1 Session);
- Step 1: Overall examination of the individual’s love life situation (Identification of the relationship stage the clients are in – Searching; Early relations; Late relations; Established Family;) (1 Session per client)
- Step 2: The Socio-Functional understanding of Love, intimacy, family, and the idea of matchmaking (1 Session)
- Step 3: Psychological profiling and Results-based feedback (4 Online instruments + 4 individual Sessions on 8 different days / per client)
- Step 4: (Depending on the relationship stage the clients are in) Long-term Goal setting & Planning for achieving those goals. (1 to 3 sessions per client)
- Step 5: Connecting the dots between the current situation and identified goals. Gap analysis (for the needed competencies development). Developmental plan & scheduling (1 Session per client)
- Step 6: Ongoing sessions for support & development of the needed competencies (identified in the previous module)
** None of the steps (modules) of the process are mandatory, and clients can decide to stop after each one of them
The first session is free of charge (the preliminary discussion for the initial introduction, questions & potential concerns).
After that:
- As most of the program consists of individual and/or couples sessions, the pricing is “per session, per client”.
- Each session is paid upfront (by one of the mentioned below methods)
- The investment for a single session is 60 Euro / per person
- The exception makes only the “Step 3” step (psychological profiling of the client/s) which has a fixed one-time pricing of 300 Euro, and for which, each client gets an extensive, in-depth report about their psychological profile and its consequences for their life. (more about this here)
Payment Methods Options:
- PayPal
- Revolut
- Binance
- IBAN bank transfer
- The “Relationship Counseling” is based on the “Socio-Functional Theory” and is backed by multiple longitudinal (15+ years) studies on more than 20 000 couples and singles throughout 4 continents, (both Americas, Europe & Asia) that provide an in-depth understanding of the ongoing processes between two partners during the development of their relationship and the resulting consequences leading to either “splitting” or “lived happily ever after”.
- Psychological profiling is delivered through a set of well-tested and proven over-time instruments, backed by individual sessions for results re-checking and confirmation.
- Sessions are led by a certified psychotherapist and coach with extensive experience in individual & couples consultancy, coaching & psychotherapy.
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